Mya Allen slams ex Oliver Gray for ‘red flags’ and ‘faking’ who he was

Mya Allen admitted to Page Six that she wasn’t aware of ex-boyfriend Oliver Gray’s “red flags” while they were dating for over a year.

“No breakup is easy,” the “Summer House” star, 31, told us. “I think I’m still dealing with a lot of it, but I think it’s so easy to want to blame yourself for not seeing the signs or not seeing the red flags, all of that. I think as women, we tend to do that.”

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“Summer House” star Mya Allen called out ex-boyfriend Oliver Gray for “faking” who he was while they were dating.
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Allen explained that “it’s almost worse” to watch their relationship play out on “Summer House” now, claiming there “actually weren’t red flags that were apparent [at the time], but they existed.”

However, the reality star emphasized that she wasn’t “oblivious” of the “signs” because of how much she liked him.

“He was really good at faking it,” Allen alleged. “I think when the whistle blew, it blew.”

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“It’s not my fault, I didn’t do anything, and that’s what I can tell myself … [but] it doesn’t make it easier to fall asleep at night or anything like that,” Allen told us.

The Bravolebrity added that even though she knows she “didn’t do anything” to cause the demise of her relationship, “it doesn’t make it easier.”

Just last week, Allen spilled on “Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen” that she and Gray broke up in September 2022 after more than a year of dating.

A mirror selfie of Oliver Gray wearing a suit
“I think when the whistle blew, it blew,” Allen said of eventually seeing Gray’s “red flags.”

She told Page Six that she waited until “Winter House” premiered one month later to spill the news to her co-stars.

“My core friends, Ciara [Miller], Amanda [Batula], Paige [DeSorbo] have been very supportive,” Allen gushed.

”They check in on me, they make sure that I’m staying afloat, and they’re doing what you would expect friends to do. So I’m very grateful for that.”

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Allen explained to us that she waited about a month to tell her “Summer House” co-stars about the split.
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Allen added that her on-again, off-again friend and co-star Lindsay Hubbard also reached out to her post-breakup and was “supportive.”

The reality TV star gave a special mention to co-star Danielle Olivera, who also went through a difficult breakup after calling it quits with longtime boyfriend Robert Sieber back in November.

A photo of Mya Allen, Samantha Feher, Amanda Batula, Gabby Prescod, Paige DeSorbo, Ciara Miller, Lindsay Hubbard, Danielle Olivera posing together holding disco balls on "Summer House"
Allen and Olivera bonded last year after they both went through breakups.
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“I think it’s like that unspoken thing. Like, I know exactly what you’re going through, so if you need to talk to someone where it may not be like the prettiest, you can talk to me,” Allen continued.

”It was just like, ‘Hey, this is hard. I’m here. I’m going through it. It’s still only a few months in for me, and like it’s still very fresh and raw, so we can do this together.’”

“Summer House” airs Mondays at 9 p.m. ET on Bravo.

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